This is a post that I have been meaning to write for a long time as I wanted to share a few gems of experience.
It’s almost been a year since Mr Moo wore his last nappy and even now, when I say the phrase ‘potty training’ a shudder still goes down my spine as I recall the number of times I tried to make the phrase “no, mammy isn’t cross, it was just an accident…” sound convincing. I’m gonna be honest with you, potty training is a really stressful time for parents (though hopefully it shouldn’t be for your baba!). As you put on the twelfth clean pair of little boxers in one day and read the back of the Milton spray to see if you can use it on car upholstery you wonder if this potty training lark really is worth it. How bad would it be if your baba is still wearing nappies as he or she heads off to university??
Well, I can’t tell you where you can buy more of the patience that you need to successfully train your baba nor am I really in a position to give counsel on the best way to go about the training itself (after all, one boxer short wearing son doesn’t exactly qualify me to dole out advice.), but what I can do is tell you where to buy the things that I found really helpful during the transition from nappy to potty!
Obviously, the most important thing that you need is a potty. You might think that one potty is pretty much the same as another but, believe me, they are not all the same. I know this because on one outing to my local supermarket, I popped a €4.99 potty into the trolley thinking that it would be a useful thing to have upstairs in Mr Moo’s bedroom (our main potty lived downstairs and I didn’t fancy having to run up and down the stairs with it everyday). I was delighted at the bargain basement price and skipped upstairs to install Mr Moo’s new ‘en-suite’ in his room. Later that night, after bargain-potty’s first use, I discovered the pitfalls of poor potty purchasing! I brought the ‘full’ potty into the bathroom and nonchalantly attempted to empty it’s contents into the toilet…… I’m not going to go into too much detail but suffice to say a spillage ensued and the anti-bacterial spray, wipes and handwash all got an unexpectedly lengthy outing that night!! It turned out that the poor design of bargain-potty meant that it was impossible to empty with any accuracy.
So what potty would I recommend? The best potty we found was the Babybjorn Potty Chair:

This potty has a number of things going for it:
- It is comfortable to use. The potty chair has a high back and arm rests which allow your baba to sit very comfortably. The potty itself is also at an ideal height. You wouldn’t want to tinkle with your knees banging into your ears and neither would your baba so avoid all those very low potties. In the early days of training your baba is likely to spend prolonged periods just sitting on their potty and they won’t be encouraged to do this if it isn’t a comfortable place to be.
- It’s easy to clean. The white section of the potty chair, which is what we might describe as the ‘business end’ of the whole thing can be lifted out easily to be emptied and cleaned.
- It’s sturdy. You don’t need me to tell you that a steady potty is a good idea!
- It’s simple to use. There are lots of potties out there with an array of bells and whistles but I steered clear of them, I didn’t want Mr Moo growing up thinking that every toilet in the world would give him a round of applause or toot a horn every time he performed!
A few other things that I found really helpful for potty training are:

The BabyBjorn Safe Step is a really useful thing to have around the house. During potty training, it is perfect to raise your baba up high enough to reach the sink for handwashing. As things progress, it can also be used to help your baba reach the ‘big toilet’. More recently, Mr Moo has used his to reach all kinds of things like light switches, the fridge, things on the kitchen counter etc. There are lots of different types of step available but I like this one because it is very sturdy, has an anti-slip rubber mat and (don’t underestimate the importance of this!) is easy to clean.

Once your baba is a proficient potty user, you will want them to move to the big toilet and the BabyBjorn Toilet Trainer makes this transition really easy. The really clever feature of this seat which differentiates it from other models is the fact that it can be fitted to the toilet seat so that it doesn’t wobble about or slip when your baba uses it. You put it onto the main toilet seat and turn a wheel until the fins on the underside of the seat are flush (excuse the pun!) with the side of the toilet thereby securing it in place. I can’t think of anything scarier for a child than feeling like they are going to fall into the toilet. We bought a different type of seat for Mr Moo to use when he was in my parent’s house (the local shop didn’t have the BabyBjorn one) and after he almost fell off a couple of times he soon became afraid to use it…..let me tell you, fear of the toilet is not ideal during potty training!
The last thing I’m going to recommend is the Potette Plus Travel Potty:

This really is a must have if you ever plan on leaving your house after your baba stops wearing nappies. It’s a small but usable plastic travel potty which folds down into an easily transportable size. You line the Potette with special liners (which are, effectively, nappy bags with an absorbent lining) which you can then remove, seal by tying and throw in the nearest bin. A clean and easy way for your baba to go to the toilet when you are out and about. I keep ours in the car and it gets used all the time, particularly on the motorway when Mr Moo (despite having told me fifteen times before we left the house that he didn’t need to go) suddenly shouts out “Mammy, I need a wee!” when there isn’t a toilet anywhere within a 10 mile radius. You could also keep it under your pram or in your changing bag. A pack of 10 liners is really reasonable and the potty and the liners are all stored in a handy drawstring carrier bag.
Well, now you are physically equipped for potty training…..you just have to get mentally ready!